What is the bestest way I can untangle my hair?!?

brush your hair out before taking a shower. start at the bottom and brush down and gradually move up a few inches (still brushing down, dont ever brush upwards). this will prevent knotting at the bottom. then when you take your shower, let the conditioner soak in a few minutes. i usually shave or wash my face/body as it soaks, then rinse it out. then brush it when you get out the same way you did before. if your hair is dry when you brush it, try some detangling spray. just dont ever start at the very top of your head when brushing cuz this only pushes the knots down and they hurt to get out.