Friday, August 12, 2011

Wow what responses good thing?

No one really knows my family. I have love and support for my cousin I'm not saying I don't. I do care what happens to her. I just don't see why her parents are so easy going about it all. First of all they never showed any sort of disappointment toward there 15 year old getting pregnant. If they had they wouldn't have allowed the boy to stay with them and sleep in the room with their child. It's not my cousin i am upset with it is her parents. They praise her and tell her how proud they are of her. Not realizing they allowed her to make this mistake. What really gets me is everyone that is going on and on about how teens shouldn't have babies and this and that. I ask one simple question as to why a parent would be happy about something like this, and it gets turned around on me. WTF I'm not jealous I watched my sister struggle with my niece. Like I said before she was 14 when she had her baby "turned 15 the next day" people in our family know what this did to her, and even now she mentions how she wish she had made different choices. They don't realize that yes they are supporting her, but at the same time her life is now with a baby. She can do just as much as any teen, but with the limitations of a baby. It's not fair that her parents more less allowed this to happen, and now are praising the outcome, and for people to jump in and make me out to be jealous and snooty forget you. I just don't get it. Oh and let me add in my other cousin "the girls aunt" got in tons of trouble for not telling anyone her niece was pregnant. They made hell for her, because they missed out on the first couple of months of pregnancy. When she herself knew nothing of the situation. So yeah the parents never were disappointed it was as if they "wanted" her to have a baby. Why else would you let your 15 year old daughter boyfriend stay with you??

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