Only serious answers please.?

ok so my story is a little complicated but hopefully someone has some good answers. Theres this girl I have been talking to for a month. I knew her before we started talking seriously thru my best friend who had been dating her. So we became friends thru him but we never really talked or seen each other much other than when they where havng problems. So they broke up and it was messy and he told me he had not even had with her. She actually had told him she really didnt want to date because she was not ready and she was focused on her kid and work but she went ahead and dated him. So anyway, after they broke up she had called me a couple of times and we talked, I mean we were still friends and nothing more. We went out one night to the club and she got a little drunk so I stayed sober to make sure she didnt get into any trouble. That night she would dance ually on me and I really didnt do much to her because she was drunk and I just couldnt take advantage of that. So anyway we continued to talk after that and hang out a couple of times and she asked me if I had feelings for her. So I told her that it was to early to tell but that I did like her it was just weird because she was my bestfriends ex. So we continued to talk and and hang out and one of those nights she had asked me if I wanted to sleep over because it was late but I couldnt because I had no cloth and I had to work in the morning. She has even bent over in front of me while I am sitting down with her in my face, she could have easily tuned the other way and she would smile and say im sorry. Now its not that i am not attracted to her its just I wanted to take things slow this time and not let confuse things. So one night we are in my truck and she tells me that how come I dont look at her and how do I feel about her. SO I tell her that I know she is beautiful and I dont need to look at her constantly to remind me of it and that I did like her. I also told her that I know I am probably what she is not use to but that I am good for her. She said she agreed and that what she is use to is not working so she would have to get unuse to that and more to me and that she really liked me. That same night she gave me a really long hug. So let me add that at this point she would text me to say hi and to let me know she was thinking of me and stuff like that. So a couple of weeks go by and I tell her lets go to a movie and dinner and she said wow a date I would love to. So before the date I didnt hear from her for two days almost and her texting me almost stopped completely, she would only respond when I would text her. The date went good even though the baby came with us. She didnt have to much time to get ready but she looked beautiful either way. during the movie she layed her head on my shoulder and I layed mine on her head and we snuggled throughout the movie. I would tease her on the ride home and tewll her I was trying to hold her hand but she moved hers and she said had she known that she would not have moved her hand. So lets just say I held her hand and she squeezed mine. OOOPs almost forgot on the drive to dinner we were talking and I told her I didnt think she missed me because i hadnt heard from her and she told me " what I do miss you, I think of you all the time, I even told my friends about you want to ask them?" so anyways we get to her apartment and I decide to tell her that I would like to take what we have to another level. She responds by smiling and telling me that it is something to consider. So I was a little embarred but I kept it going and she told me its just she just got out of two bad relationships and didnt want to get hurt again but that she really liked me alot that she thinks of me alot. So I told her I understood because I happen to be going thru the same well went thru the same as far as bad relationships go. ISo we hugged goodbye and I gave her kiss on the cheek. I also had told her I am a patient man but that I wouldnt wait forever. So the next day I went to Indiana on work related business and I got one text from her after I had text her and a failed call attempt because she was busy and said she would call me back but never did. So I text her the next day to tell her I was on my way home from indiana. Keep in mind she had asked me to. I didnt hear from her at all. So two days go by and nothing. So i text her and she responds by saying I started school again and have been busy with work. I had completely forgot about that. SO I told her that I did miss her and she responded by saying "aww you really missed me? " and I didnt hear back from her. SO I text her that night and told her was it koo If I go over to hang out and that I would cook dinner. She agreed. Later she text me and told me she was in a really bad mood because of a fight she had with her mom and she just didnt want to be in a bad mood around me so I turned around and went home but I first left her some food because she hadnt eaten and I j